Keerti Taneja the Best Mentor in noida
The custom of Marriage: -Is it a reason for the Self-Love crisis among women?
• Is a woman’s identity is restricted to only the roles of being daughter, sister, wife, mother, daughter-in-law, and mother-in-law?
The period of marriage is considered to be the most important, happier, and more beautiful period of life. Every girl dream that someone will come and fill her life with happiness and love. And every woman wants to live the beautiful dream of this marriage period where she expects her husband to be more supportive, loving, and compassionate towards her. The foundation of true marriage is based on love, faith, and understanding of the two persons involved.
The core concept of a marriage is the interpersonal relationships between them. Marriage is not a constant process but it is a dynamic process. In marriage, both involved persons have to put effort, love, and trust during their whole life to make it fruitful. To strengthen their love bond of marriage, they have to complete their roles very thoughtfully and beautifully.
But the irony is that 31% of married women have to face post-marriage depression and 10% of women suffered “Domestic violence”. The main reason for depression is a lack of fulfilling responsibilities or roles that are associated with women. ( Best Mentor in noida )
The main role which is expected of a woman is to carry out the reproductive system. All the girls are conditioned to be perfect daughters, perfect wives, perfect mothers, and perfect daughters-in-law.
And if they are not fulfilling their roles properly, they are believed to be imperfect.
• Can we label a woman only on the parameters of roles given to her to play on this earth?
Self-Love crisis among women: –
A global report launched identified a self-love crisis for women in the world in which 1 in 2 women feel more self-doubt than self-love. In the U.S.,64% of women don’t feel better about themselves. They lack self-love because of some issues. Society considers motherhood as the central goal of life for a woman. The women are biologically, emotionally, and psychologically prepared for motherhood.
Every woman is expected to take care of all family members, rear their children, give comfort, and put others on priority over all the engagements.
• As a daughter, she has to keep all the discipline set by their parents and society.
• To fit in as a perfect wife, she has to perform all the societal duties. She has to understand their husband’s work, and house responsibilities. She is expected to be more compassionate and understanding. She is expected to put herself aside and give priority to the role of being wife, daughter-in-law and mother.
• The main role after getting married expected from a woman is to bear a child.
She has to take care of all the needs of her child whether it is their nourishment, inculcating values or becoming a role model for them. A mother is the first role model for a child so it is expected of a woman to enter into perfect womanhood.
Research showed that 50% of women have the pressure of becoming perfect mothers. Women are conditioned that they are incomplete without the role of being a mother. Their identity is restricted to only someone’s daughter, someone’s wife and a mother.
The guilt of this imperfection leads to a loss of belief in women.
This traditional thinking of society restricted women to doubt their true abilities. This is the main reason that girls take marriage as the root cause of their suffering.
But the status of marriage is different today. When the concept of marriage was introduced, it was restricted to only rearing children securely. Earlier marriage was created in such a way that mothers were restricted to only household responsibilities and men for outdoor activities. Earlier marriages were based only on the patriarchal system. But now it’s the time of a paradigm shift.
Marriages should be based on growth and understanding of the partners involved not on longevity. Freedom, compassion, and respect should be the fundamental elements of the union, not fear and insecurity. In this new paradigm, we should allow each other to grow and evolve. We should respect each other viewpoints over expectations of things how they should be. The vows of marriages should be
• To celebrate each other’s freedom.
• To keep authenticity above all.
• Growth, respect, understanding and honesty should be fundamental elements of marriage.
• Both parties will support each other.
Marriage is not a matter of degree of longevity rather it should be measured in the terms of quality of years spent not the quantity. This new paradigm of union will resolve all the issues of the self-love crisis.
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